IAC Newsletter – Spring 1994
- Steve N.
- Nov 15
- 3 min read
IAC Newsletter – Spring 1994
(International Advisory Council for Homosexual Men & Women in AA)

The Spring 1994 issue of IACTIVITY is an extraordinary archival edition filled with personal recovery stories, LGBTQ+ AA history, early roundup listings, Tradition Two reflections, and community correspondence from around the world. This newsletter demonstrates how the IAC served as a lifeline for LGBTQ+ AA members long before the days of websites and social media.
🌟 “Watch What You Pray For!” — Message from IAC Secretary Hilda C.
Hilda shares her journey into AA service work:
Early sobriety in San Antonio
Serving as GSR for Lambda groups in Texas and Michigan
Becoming IAC Tape Librarian
Being confirmed as IAC Secretary at the Vancouver Council Meeting
Discovering the meaningful responsibility of reading mail from LGBTQ+ AA members across the globe
Her story highlights the humility, willingness, and spiritual growth that come from AA service.
💔 “Tom’s Story” — A profound personal share of survival, love, loss & recovery
One of the most powerful stories ever published in IACTIVITY.
Tom, an orphan living on the streets of Utah and Los Angeles, was adopted at 14 by a man named Chuck — the first person ever to show him love and stability. After Chuck died from early AIDS in 1982, Tom fell into addiction, despair, and a suicide attempt.
In 1987 he walked into a gay AA meeting in Las Vegas and began a new life he never thought possible. Today he gives back through writing to loners and incarcerated LGBTQ+ alcoholics who need connection and hope.
🌈 “We Get Letters” — Fellowship Correspondence
AA members write from Alaska, Arizona, Connecticut, and Germany, sharing:
Group donations
Requests for meeting directories
Offers to serve as IAC representatives
Updates on new LGBTQ+ meetings
Regional service opportunities
These letters show how important IAC was as a communication hub in the 1990s.
📖 Tradition Two Reflection — by Reilly K.
A thoughtful and often humorous look at:
Group conscience
Trusted servants vs. authority
How unity grows out of disagreement
Why AA has no “enforceable rules”
The spiritual purpose behind rotating leadership
Reilly’s writing is a classic example of AA wisdom applied to LGBTQ+ groups.
🏳️🌈 History of Gay AA – Seattle by Steve R.
A rare, detailed historical account of early LGBTQ+ AA in Seattle, including:
Live and Let Live (formed 1976) — the city’s first gay AA meeting
Acceptance — a candlelight meeting formed soon after
K.I.S.S. (Keep It Simple Sunday) — formed as demand grew
The “yellow house” era beginning in 1982
How these meetings grew into a strong LGBTQ+ AA community
Tom’s early service experience (including accidentally making coffee with 5 jars of instant!)
How Seattle LGBTQ+ AA eventually moved into a permanent clubhouse
This is one of the oldest known written histories of gay AA in the Pacific Northwest.
🦅 “Flight Pattern” — A Parable on Unity
A well-loved inspirational piece comparing geese flying in formation to AA fellowship:
Shared strength
Mutual support
Rotation of leadership
Staying in alignment with others moving in the same direction
Caring for the sick or struggling
It reinforces the power of unity and community in recovery.
🗂 IAC Meeting Directory Updates & New Representatives
New reps sought for Northeast states and East-Central Region
New Germany representative announced
Reminder to use the IAC Update Form for meeting listings and directory corrections
🎉 1994 LGBTQ+ AA Roundup Calendar
Dozens of early LGBTQ+ roundups are listed, including:
Celebrate Sobriety (Vancouver)
Sober in the Sun (Palm Springs)
Unity in Sobriety (Oakland)
Vision of Hope (Rochester, NY)
Miracles Happen (Orange County)
Bluegrass Roundup (Kentucky)
Happy, Joyous & Free (Chicago)
Living Sober (San Francisco)
Land of Enchantment (New Mexico)
Soberfest (Las Vegas)
Capitol Roundup (Washington, DC)
Hotlanta Roundup (Atlanta)
Gratitude Roundup (Toronto)
Many of these roundups still exist today — this is one of the earliest surviving calendars.
💰 Contributions – Dec 1993 through March 1994
Hundreds of dollars donated by LGBTQ+ AA groups, individuals, and roundups across the U.S., Canada, and Hawaii.
Groups included:
Gay Joyous & Free (Anchorage)
Lavender Hill (Oakland)
Live & Let Live (CA, WA)
Men’s Stag
Rainbow Group
Doylestown Friday Night Men’s
Club 449 groups (Hawaii)
Lambda groups (TX, MN)
Washington, DC groups
Kearney & Omaha (NE)
Maui, Honolulu & Kauai groups
Dozens more
Contributions helped fund directories, newsletters, and IAC's international communication efforts.
IAC Newsletter – Spring 1994
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